Unhealthy ways to text each other in an interracial relationship
We all know how important texting is to interracial relationship and keeping a conversation flowing nicely is very important because failure to do so can raise a few red flags. Your lover might think that your heart is elsewhere or they end up losing interest because things have become stale. In other words, they become bored and the question now is what are the texting tips one needs to avoid to prevent their relationship from falling apart.
1. Avoid not responding text messages on purpose
Text messages from your lover should not be ignored and should be responded to as soon as you get a chance. There might be times where you cant respond straight away like there is no network coverage because you are in an underground train station, for example, your hands are full or you are busy with work. There are a few exceptions but ignoring them on purpose will make your lover feel neglected. If your lover is texting you a bit too much for your liking, be frank and tell them to cool off a bit.
2. Avoid cooking up stories just for the sole purpose of texting
If you do not have anything interesting at share at that particular moment, it is better to not say anything at all until something really comes up that you want to share. The last thing you want to be doing is trying to come across as interesting to your lover by texting them made up stories. This will ultimately come back to bite you when they find out that the stories you were feeding them were all lies and made up just so you can text them. This is a no-no and the world is full of interesting things you can text about. Instead of coming across as a very interesting person to talk to, you come across as a liar.
3. If you have an issue with your lover, don’t text them
Things in text messages can come across very poorly especially when they are typed in anger. Everyone interprets things differently when they read them and what you may type as constructive criticism can be made to look very bad in text message form. The best way to avoid a breakdown in communication is to simply meet face to face. Talk about everything tough in the flesh as a couple because messages that have negative content are not always well received.
4. Avoid sending a person plenty of links, pictures, and videos
When you spam your lover with plenty of links, videos and text messages, it can get very annoying. Try to be very sensible when it comes to the content that you share with your lover because going over the top can scare them off. They will think you are crazy however, a picture, video or link every once in a while is perfectly fine. Don’t give your lover more content that they can handle.
We wish the tips will prevent your interracial relationship from falling apart.