An interracial relationship is one of the most beautiful things in the world, however, it can be derailed easily especially if your woman still has feelings for her old flames. Getting over an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend does not happen overnight. It does take time and each person is different when it comes to the length of time it takes them to get over their ex. If you have any suspicions that your lady isn’t over her ex, below are a few signs you need to keep an eye out for
1. She talks about him every single chance she gets
If you have been dating your girlfriend for months and you hear her talking about her ex-boyfriend at every chance she gets, this is a classic sign and a massive red flag that she might still be in love with him. Even when she is mad or upset and name drops her ex in the conversation, you should not let this slide and comfort her if she still just raw feelings for her ex or not because you do not want to be in a relationship with a woman who’s there with you physically but is mentally with her ex. This creates a very unhealthy relationship for both parties because it feels like you are forcing the relationship in each other rather than actually wanting to be together.
2. She is constantly liking and commenting on his posts
When a relationship is over, its over full stop and when you see that your current girlfriend is an active participant on her ex-boyfriend’s posts, there is cause for concern here because it shows she is thinking about him to a certain degree and she misses him. If you are over someone, you do not comment or like their content on social media.
3. She name drops her ex frequently
This point goes hand in hand with the first point about talking about her ex at every available chance she gets. If she calls you by her ex-boyfriend’s name once, you can look at the other way and say it was a slip of the tongue but if it happens a few more times then it is time to raise an eyebrow or two. This means that they haven’t moved on from their ex-partner and think about them from time to time.
4. She will compare to her ex-partner
Every man doesn’t like to be a cut and copy of another man that came before him, especially when it comes to an interracial relationship. They want to be their own man because they have different characteristics that they bring to the table that are unique to them. If your girlfriend keeps on comparing you with her ex-boyfriend and wants you to be like him or do things how he did them, this is a good indicator that she still hasn’t gotten over him.